I have dark hair and so does my husband but our baby has light hair on top. will it turn darker?8/25/2023 I don't think you can really help but daydream about what they'll look like and it's probably just as natural to pick the most idealized version of your options. But I am of the belief that she'll have parts of me come out as her features develop. That's the only part that's a little disappointing, to not see any part of myself staring back at me whem i look down at her sweet little face. But I see nothing of myself in her, not even a little here or there. It's too early to tell eye color but we think probably brown. Black hair and filipino features.so far even more so than her dad. We just had zero idea what this baby could come out looking like. I'm a brunette with blue eyes but my mom has nearly white-blond hair. My husband is half filipino and is brown eyed/black haired, but has a blue eyed/blond haired father. The world is cruel and we can't protect our kids from everything, but we can make our homes a loving and accepting place for them. Always tell him that he's beautiful and he will grow up with the confidence that he is. It's other people who will form opinions, but you will always see your baby as perfect. It won't matter to you what he looks like. Everyone's opinions about him became meaningless to me. What the reality was ended up being far more beautiful than anything my imagination was capable of conjuring up. It was a dream that was created from my own desires and biases and fears of the judgment of society. It took a second to digest that what I had envisioned was so different from reality. I remember thinking "THAT'S what I've been carrying around for 9 months?!!" Lol. That's not what came out and it surprised me. I pictured a little Nordic-looking cherub. I had pictured a bald, light blue-eyed baby with a big (but cute) nose. My husband has a masculine Roman nose and I have a little nose. I was bald when I was born and my husband had light hair. I was a little surprised when my son was born. He'll be perfect because he'll be born looking exactly as he was always meant to be. The truth is that your son will be perfect when he is born. □ Anyways, I understand where you're coming from, but either way your son comes out he will be beautiful and you'll fall in love with his features. I want my husband to have his mini-me too. I do again hope that my second kid has my husband's eyes, but only because my first is my little twin. I don't believe in the superiority of any eye color. Seeing my son's eyes has given me a love for my own and eliminated any insecurity I had about them. When I was pregnant with my son, she would make comments about hoping the baby had her green eyes or my husband's blue eyes, but never my eyes. My mom and siblings all have green eyes and my mom always gave me a complex about my eye color, like it was boring compared to theirs. As soon as he was born, I could tell that he would probably have my brown eyes (they were a dark blue-grey). I wanted my son to have my husband's blue eyes.
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